Personally I think everyone gets the shitty end of the stick at one point or another, no matter the scenario.
As others have said, it's astounding the amount of people who will go out of the way to tell you how bad you are and how big a pos everyone thinks you are. All because you didn't return some text gear or told them to piss off for their non-stop whining. The amount of messages I got for dooring Kendall and not returning to Walker is so funny and laughable. The amount of messages I got concerning them "no voting" my Gaidin applicant really was icing on the cake. Doesn't bother me one bit.
It's amazing how petty people can be, just because you've not played the way they want or catered to their wishes. You guys need to grow some thicker skin. Real life comes first, that's true, but losing a piece of text and claiming someone is a huge douche and blackballed w/e really is hilarious. It sucks, I know. I've been killed afk/ld numerous times for rares/uniques whatever and I very rarely
get a return. Nice when it happens, it's whatever if it doesn't.
Sit back, enjoy your time playing this game with each other. Laugh when you die, laugh when you win. The only person infringing on your own happiness involving the game is yourself.